Sharing a personal decision I made last week
I had an interesting dilemma last week. To start off, let me just share that the Law of Attraction has been working quite well for me. If the law is true — that what we focus on “expands” — then that is truly what has been happening for me.
I’m in the middle of a mini-book program, which I shared previously. I am focusing on two different mini-books — one is The Money Effect book, which relates to this website, and the other is a book on Divine Parenting, and identifying our needs.
I moved two and a half months ago to a mountain resort town. I have been looking for work — sending out a lot of applications to many different places. I had decided, early on, to do something that I have never done before. I wanted to expand myself and learn and grow in another way. To this end, last week I had two jobs offers.
One job offer was at a daycare. I would be responsible for looking after the wee infants, 0-2 years of age. I would be partnered with at least one other person, with a maximum number of children in the room set at seven. It’s been a long time since I spent time with small children, so I’m very much out of practice. However, there is government-funded training — three levels to be completed within three years. Divine Parenting, made manifest.
The second job was working for an international arts centre, in the HR department responsible for payroll. The benefits are tremendous, including access to a fitness centre, potential for staff accommodation, free food, training in all different areas, free events, etc. The Money Effect, made manifest.
The two job offers came within a two day period. I had waited for all this time and now, I have a choice. Hmmm… to play with the beautiful “new” children, and have them teach me so I could teach others? Or, to challenge myself with working in a brand new field (for me) with over 700 new people, from all around the world, and learn more about money to share with others?
How did I decide? I had to look at all the pro’s, and ultimately, the international centre won out. Could it have been the potential accommodation option, the fitness centre, access to the phenomenal creative energy? Or could it have just been the $1,200 per month difference in wage I would be receiving as a result of this choice? Or, could it have been all of that?
Money definitely plays a part in our decisions. I need funding for my projects, and I’d like to be able to fund them myself. This gives me that option, and access to a lot of other things focused on my life purpose and direction.
It may have been my wish to work with the children more. I would like to see a parent receive funding to stay home with their children, with access to the early childhood education courses that the daycare workers get. Imagine if moms could afford to stay home AND get training on how to be a great parent! I would vote for that…
In any event, my energies are now divided even more, as I am back in the working world for at least a 2-year term. It may delay some of my projects (because I cannot focus all my attentions on my life-purpose work), however, I may make connections that will take me in new directions I might not have thought of otherwise.
I’m looking forward to this adventure. I hope the learning curve will not take as long as I think, and that I will ease into a comfortableness soon.
To your prosperity,
Sue
Lending money to friends and relatives
I came across this article today about a high profile actor suing his father and uncle for an unpaid loan. It just made me smile, as it reminded me of some saying about never lending money to people you like or love, cus it can ruin the relationship.
Quite a few years ago, I lent some money (more like gave it, cus I don’t lend things) to a close relative in order to help their family move and get a fresh start in a city that had better employment opportunities. So, I really had no expectations — I never would have given the money had I had expectations of repayment, because expectations breed disappointment. So, I lent the money, and didn’t hear from that relative for a few years. They didn’t have the money to pay me back in that time period, and so didn’t want to initiate contact with me, out of a sense of guilt. Eventually, I received a card with a cheque with the money and a bit of interest all paid back. Since I was upset with them for not communicating with me for that time period, I never called or responded to the receipt of the card. Eventually, I received a phone call from them, asking me if I received the card and the cheque, and was everything ok.
I told them I was upset, and they were puzzled. I said I’m not upset about the money — I’m upset because you chose not to speak to me as a result of it. It was like I had done something wrong, and was being punished for it. Interesting…
Would I lend money to someone? No. Would I give it away if they needed it, and I had it? Yes. It is not a difficult decision if the need is truly genuine.
To your prosperity,
Sue
Profiting from War
As a result of watching the document, Why We Fight, (see previous post) I became aware of the Center for Public Integrity. Cool name, and interesting purpose.
They published a book entitled Making A Killing — The Business of War, and here is a link to the site, with some accompanying articles of interest.
To your prosperity,
Sue
Why We Fight – the Documentary
A look at the “military-industrial complex” (a phrase coined by the late Dwight Eisenhower). This film sheds light on the ‘money effect’ of war, and is very pertinent to this website’s focus. I would highly recommend this film for viewing by all audiences around the globe.
I share a quotation from Charles Lewis, Center for Public Integrity, who says in the film:
I think the history of the US, as a work in progress in our attempt at democracy here, is a constant struggle between capitalism and democracy, and there have been ebbs and flows where democracy looks like it’s winning – you reign in those powerful forces — but the fundamental reality is, that most of the government’s decisions today are substantially dictated by powerful corporate interest. Clearly, capitalism is winning.
May we all live in peace and harmony with each other.
To your prosperity,
Sue
One version of the history of money
When the Money Effect concept first entered my mind a few years back, I realized that I had never known the history of money — when it started, what was used initially, etc. Since then, I’ve come across different pieces of information that has given me a bit more insight into it’s origins.
I don’t recall ever having been taught in school about money – where it came from, how to work with it, saving strategies, etc, and in a few money-making workshops I’ve attended, some attention has been put on this from members of the audience. In a future post, I’ll provide some information that is helpful to kids.
In the meantime, here is a link that provides one perspective on the history of money.
To your prosperity,
Sue